A reader grapples with the challenge of having her mother-in-law living in their basement after a tumultuous divorce. The mother-in-law's behavior has become increasingly intrusive, creating tension in the household. The columnist offers practical advice, emphasizing the importance of open communication with her husband about his mother’s actions and how they affect their relationship. She suggests gentle rebuttals to passive-aggressive comments and encourages the couple to devise a plan for the mother-in-law's independence. Options include considering the sister-in-law's household as a temporary solution and exploring job opportunities for the mother-in-law, such as real estate or teaching. The columnist highlights the need for a structured exit plan that allows the mother-in-law to regain her independence while ensuring she feels supported. Ultimately, the goal is to foster a healthier family dynamic without sacrificing the well-being of any family member.
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